ユルヒ(元LABOUM)、「養育権を放棄した理由は…」
YULHEE (formerLABOUM), ”The reason I gave up my custody rights is...”
YULHEE, a former member of the girl group LABOUM, opened up about the circumstances that led to her divorce from Choi MIN HWAN (FTISLAND).
On the 22nd, YULHEE appeared on TV Chosun's "Alone Again" and revealed his daily life as a single person.
In an interview with the production team, YULHEE said, "I debuted at a young age with no social experience, so apart from being on stage, it was mentally difficult."
"When I was going through a really tough time mentally, I met my ex-husband and was able to rely on him, and we comforted each other a lot. My ex-husband was also going through a difficult time. We started dating, had a child, got married, and then
"I got to meet my beautiful children," he said, recalling the time of his marriage. YULHEE continued, "After 3-4 months, I had a child. We met and talked a lot about marriage. I wanted to get married at 23. I wanted to be happy and live happily ever after."
"I wanted to create a happy family," she said, explaining why she decided to get married. She then recalled the birth of her first child at the age of 22, saying, "I was very happy at that time. He was so cute.
"I found out a month after Jaeyul's first birthday that I was pregnant with twins," she said. YULHEE spoke about how she felt at the time, saying, "Jaeyul has a little sister now. I was so happy that our family was going to grow even more."
"I wanted a happy family, so we were both happy," she said, adding, "When I look at my children, I wonder what in life makes me laugh so hard my mouth splits.
"It was my dream. I was very happy," she recalled of her children. However, YULHEE ended up getting divorced after five years of marriage. YULHEE said about the divorce, "I didn't feel it. So it was very sudden.
"So I have a lot of happy memories. I never felt that a crisis was coming. From the moment I found out, it was hell. I was the only one who was hurt.
"When the word 'divorce' first seriously approached me, I thought I would overcome it. I would be able to overcome this pain and difficulties.
"Because we love each other. Because we have children," she said. "When I felt like I couldn't get over it, we were both in deep pain. Emotionally. We both felt like this was the right decision for both of us.
In response to the production staff's words, "It must have taken a lot of courage to bring up the topic of divorce," YULHEE replied, "I didn't bring it up. I didn't bring it up, so I don't understand."
"It's not a question of whether to raise them or not. It's the hurt these children will receive. Divorce is inevitable. What parent wouldn't want to see their child, who shares their own blood, go through this?"
How could I not want to live with him and raise him? That was the hardest part. I can't even put it into words how painful it was."
The two divorced, and custody was given to her former husband, Choi Min Hwan.
Hee said, "I've seen such a large family living together and the children living happily, so it's a really good environment in reality. My three children and I signed a lease on a house and built a house on the ground.
"I've already made him worry about divorce by working hard to get by and sending him to kindergarten, but this will change everything," she said, weeping.
2024/10/23 14:27 KST
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