”It's a secondary act of victimization” - Actress Ku Hye Sun's attack on her ex-husband Ahn Jae Hyun sparks mixed reactions... Why?

Actress Ku Hye Sun has caused controversy by asking her ex-husband, actor Ahn Jae Hyun, not to cause secondary harm when he mentioned their divorce on a variety show.
On the 8th (today), Ku Hye Sun wrote on her SNS, "The fact that 'divorce after 5 years' is always in the headlines and that she is repeatedly exposed and stigmatized is a big problem.
"I don't think it's the right media ethics," Ku Hye Sun said. "During the divorce process between me and my former spouse, conflicting claims were made, and we ultimately agreed to a direction that didn't question the truth or falsity of the claims."
Once this is reached, even if it is not a true reconciliation between the parties, it can be seen as an implicit promise and a human right.
"It was a very selfish and difficult process," he continued, "However, even though the divorce process with my former spouse was not good, I felt that it was because I was involved in the same industry and was a party to the matter.
Continuous indirect references and statements that can be used to infer a person's identity (a sensible act that alternates between a story and a joke) are considered cowardly, as are various other provocative statements.
The people who make gossip shows are asking leading questions and extracting condolences from the former spouses themselves, which is a form of secondary victimization and an act of deep hurt.
"I hope that they will be aware of this," she said, asking her former husband, Ahn Jae Hyun. "I want there to be a conscience in variety shows too.
"If even such words cause enough discomfort to the people involved, I think it needs to stop right now," he emphasized.
Ku Hye Sun is making fun of himself to bring joy to the world.
He said that no one in this world has the right to do so, and that he wants his former spouse to be active in the real world with his or her own unique identity, not as a material object, but to be noticed, develop, and thrive.
Ku Hye Sun and Ahn Jae Hyun met while working together on the KBS2TV series "Dear Blood" in 2016.
Their relationship developed into a romantic one. They got married the following year, but divorced four years later. Since then, Ku Hye Sun has been working as a film director and composer, as well as pursuing a master's degree in engineering at the KAIST Graduate School of Science and Journalism, and has been working as a singer/actress in the music industry.
He has obtained a patent for his "Lee" product. Not only that, on the 7th, he also revealed his "preliminary venture company confirmation letter" and a photo of his office, revealing his latest updates as the CEO of a venture company.
Ahn Jae Hyun is currently active on YouTube and variety shows. In variety shows, you have to show your true self, not the character you're portraying.
Therefore, Ahn Jae Hyun could not avoid questions and comments about the "divorce." On the 5th of this month, he appeared on the YouTube channel "Cho Hyun A's Ordinary Thursday Night."
When the topic of incidents and accidents came up, Ahn Jae Hyun indirectly mentioned his divorce by saying, "I was involved in that too," and said, "When I appeared on 'Fairy Jae Hyun,' I had some moments, but I was living alone."
Ahn Jae Hyun has also appeared in many TV dramas, including KBS2TV's "Going, Coming Feelings Lee Min JEONG" and MBC's "I Live Alone."
However, Ku Hye Sun has not been able to avoid mentioning the issue of divorce. Ku Hye Sun also appeared on KBS2T
She has appeared on V's "Park Won-sook's Let's Live Together," Channel A's "Oh Eun-young's Useful Advice Center," KBS1's "Morning Garden," and other shows, sharing her thoughts about her divorce and her current situation.
For these reasons, Ku Hye Sun's attack on Ahn Jae Hyun has sparked mixed reactions from netizens.