Ham So-Won, who is ”divorced from her husband who is 18 years younger than her,” posts a long message that brings back memories of her former husband, Jin-hwa, who was once a wealthy businessman... What is the change in her feelings?

Ham So-Won, a former Miss Korea member and actress, reminisced about her former husband, Jin-Hwa. Recently, Ham So-Won posted a selfie she took with her former husband, Jin-Hwa, on her SNS.
Ham SoWon wrote, "That day too, I went around looking at land in the afternoon (I was spending time with a friend in the real estate business, investing in it), and for dinner I went to a massage parlor.
When I think back to those days when we would eat dinner together and play together every day, I don't think I had the perfect smile of Hye-jeong like I do now, but I think I was really free and relaxed, and we were able to grow together.
When I was enjoying the place, when I made a group chat for the guests in advance for my friend's birthday party invitation, the name Jinhwa in the profile looked like she was Korean.
" He continued, "I thought, 'I wonder if she's Korean?' But I thought it would be a bit hesitant to contact her first, and while I was thinking about it, a friend of mine named Jinhwa said,
He sent me emojis. I asked him if he was Korean, and he said he was Chinese. Soon we were exchanging emails about all sorts of things, and we ended up going to a friend's birthday party.
"He asked me if I wanted to participate, and when I said yes, he replied that he would participate too," Ham So-Won said. "At that time, I wasn't very interested in men. I had given up on marriage.
At that time, I was 41 years old, and I thought that if I fell in love and got married, I would be 43 or 45 years old, and that it would be difficult to have children. I said that I wasn't interested in men. I was all
After that, I easily gave up. The rest was decided by heaven. My heart was empty when it came to marriage. Even now, I only have gratitude for Jinhua. There are many circumstances in each word, but in short,
If I were to talk about it in detail, it would be my relationship in Beijing, which lasted for several years. In the end, we broke up, but it took several more years for my tumultuous relationship. Over the course of seven years, I have seen the anxiety of meeting and parting.
Jinhua couldn't see that gaze. I can say I could see it! This person can handle it, he can handle it well. Of course there will be opposition to this marriage, but this
"I was 99%, no, 120% sure that it was possible," he said, explaining the circumstances that led to their marriage. After filing for marriage with Jinhwa, he was busy with work, but also had plans to have a second child.
Ham So-Won said, "Even though work was overwhelming, I couldn't turn down the work because I was grateful to the people who were happy to see me back in Korea after such a long time.
I worked hard. My habit came out again. I continued to work hard until the end. And, wanting to have a second child, I gave myself an injection in my lower abdomen and continued to have test-tube babies.
"I prepared for home shopping at 4 in the morning, did the live broadcast at 7, finished the live broadcast at 11, filmed 'Wife's Taste,' finished at midnight, and then did home shopping again at 12.
I went to the gym, finished my last job, went home, took a shower, lay down, and was able to sleep for three hours. At this time, I was greedy and even started a company and started the business I had always wanted to try.
" He recalled his busy days, saying, "The world is unpredictable. When one problem is solved, another problem arises. Even things that seem impossible can be solved easily, and there are no problems at all.
Even things that don't seem to matter suddenly become big problems. I still don't understand why life flows the way it does, why there is an even higher mountain when we get over a mountain, why life is so complicated.
Is this how it is? Those who have had test-tube babies at age 43, 44, or 45 will understand. How difficult it is every day, and how heartbreaking it is for those who wait every month.
"I wonder if I should continue," he added, adding that he had reached his limit. Meanwhile, Ham SoWon filed for marriage with Jinhua, a Chinese woman 18 years younger than him, in 2018 and became legally married. In December of the same year, they gave birth to a daughter.
She gave birth to daughter Hyejeong and divorced in December 2022.